What is IFS Therapy?

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is all about connecting with parts of you that are overworked, hidden away, or in conflict with each other to allow your most authentic Self and values to be at the center of how you live your life.

IFS therapy is…

While I use IFS therapy to address many different experiences, I am most passionate about using it to support clients who want to heal from relational trauma, intense anxiety, perfectionism & people-pleasing.

Relational trauma may look & sound like...

✤ Growing up with emotionally unavailable or emotionally dysregulated parents

“I can’t share how I feel with others because then I’ll become a burden to them”

✤ Difficulty identifying and regulating emotions because you were never taught how to do it or were punished when you expressed emotions

“I’m afraid to be myself around others”

People-pleasing may look & sound like...

✤ Feeling responsible for everyone else's emotions and experiences

“It doesn’t matter what I want, as long as everyone else is happy”

✤ Intense fear of judgement, rejection, and upsetting others

“Even though I don’t have time for myself, I can’t say no when someone asks for something”

Intense anxiety may look & sound like...

✤ Your body feeling like it's in constant hyper-vigilance mode

It’s so difficult to sleep or relax because my head is filled with constant ‘What if…’ questions”

✤ Experiences of panic and anxiety attacks

✤ Dissociation (numbing out, excessive scrolling or screen time, etc.) to avoid anxious feelings

“I want to enjoy my life but I can’t stop feeling like something bad is going to happen”

Perfectionism may look & sound like...

✤ Experiencing loud inner critics

“Failure is not an option!”

✤ Deep fears of failure, disappointing others, and not being good enough

“I wish I could feel okay making a mistake but I just end up feeling like a bad person”

If you are ready to explore and relate to your emotional world in a new way…